Are conditions much different between the United States and China at age 40? Chinese people point out key difference in “midlife restart”: The pressure to survive is behind it

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The discussion pointed out that the differences between China and the United States in unemployment at age 40 and tolerance for change are not only about mentality, but also involve population competition, family burden, education channels, and social system.

Is 40 the second half of life or the starting point of a new beginning? Onelittle red book Netizen “Li Yiyang” repeated the question of an American friend, who observed that in China, if a person is unemployed at the age of 40, his career is often considered to be at the end. However, in the United States, it does not seem unusual for a person to go back to school, change industries, or even start a business in middle age. The question sparked discussion among hundreds of netizens, with focus ranging from cultural differences to population competition, family responsibilities and social systems.

Several comments suggested that the difference could not be attributed solely to mindset. China has a large population and competition for jobs is fierce. Some recruitment notices directly set the age limit as 35 to 40 years. When a company has a large number of young job seekers to choose from, middle-aged workers may face obstacles finding a job, even if they are experienced. In comparison, middle-aged and older workers are more common in American service industries and some professional workplaces, making job changes in middle age more likely.

Household cash flow is also a major factor. Many Chinese 40-year-olds are burdened with mortgages, children’s education and parental care expenses all at the same time. Once they lose their jobs, it will be difficult for them to suspend their income for two or three years and return to school. Some netizens bluntly said that it is not that middle-aged people lack the courage to change, but the cost of trial and error is too high; Even if they complete further studies, they will still not be able to cross the age limit in the workplace.

Other foreign netizens mentioned that the United States and some European countries have relatively diverse channels for adult education, night classes, and career change, and some people can even get student support resources.

However, restarting in midlife is not something every American can do easily. If there is a lack of savings, family support or social security, unemployment can also cause severe shock. What is easy to see on the Internet are often cases of successful transformation, and rarely are the costs borne by the losers.

There are also many personal experiences of “restarting in midlife” in the comment area. Some people return to graduate school at age 37 and study for a PhD at age 41, while others learn new technology, English, and electric guitar as they approach age 40, in hopes of reducing the risk of unemployment in middle age. Some netizens said that age should not determine whether life can still change. Learning is meaningful in itself. Even though it may not yield high income immediately, it can reset life goals.

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  • Due to the fierce competition for employment in China, an age limit of 35 to 40 years has also been set for some job vacancies. With huge expenses like mortgages, child care and daycare, it is difficult for middle-aged people to accept longer periods of study.


  • The article mentioned that middle-aged and older employees are more common in the service industry and some professional workplaces in the United States, and there are many channels for adult education, night school, and career change, and some people can even get education resources.


  • Restarting at midlife is not easy for every American. Without savings, family support or security, unemployment will still be high; But the learning and change itself are still valuable.

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