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BLACKPINK member Lisa shared in a podcast that she once took her mother and a friend to a sushi restaurant on a date, but the romantic partner refused to pay. They took this as a warning about the relationship and sparked debate online.
south korea Lisa, a member of the popular girl group BLACKPINK, has been actively expanding her acting career in Europe and the United States in recent years. She recently appeared on the American podcast program “Therapies” and unexpectedly shared a shockingly ambiguous experience in the past. She revealed that she once took her mother and her friend to her favorite sushi restaurant for dinner. At that time, she half-jokingly asked the man she was having an affair with if he wanted to pay. Unexpectedly, the man refused on the spot and did not pay until the meal was over. In the end, he paid the bill himself. He said that this experience became a warning sign in their relationship.
Lisa was recently interviewed on the podcast “Therapous” hosted by American host Jake Shane. When talking about the warning signs that can’t be ignored in relationships, he shared this past. She remembered going to a sushi restaurant for dinner with her mother and friends. During dinner, he jokingly asked his shadowy companion, “Do you want to pay for us?” Unexpectedly, the man replied without hesitation: “Haha, no.”
Lisa admitted that she thought the other party was only joking at this time, and she also hoped that the person could refuse verbally, but would secretly pay the bill in private as a surprise for her. Unexpectedly, until the entire meal was over, the other party never expressed anything. In the end, he paid the bill himself, which left her quite shocked.
After listening to Lisa, the host couldn’t help but put forward his own opinion, thinking that if the man is pursuing her and trying to win her favor, she should show more sincerity. Lisa further explained that she did not expect the man to pay for every date, nor was she able to afford the meal. What really mattered to him was that his mother and friends were present at that time. If the man was willing to take the initiative to pay the bill, it will make her feel valued and that she is willing to pay.
After this old incident came to light, a discussion broke out between the two groups on the internet. Some people believe that since the man is pursuing Lisa, and her mother and friends were traveling with her at the time, taking the initiative to feed her can really show thoughtfulness and sincerity. However, some netizens believe that the other party has no obligation to pay for the meals of Lisa and her relatives and friends, and refusing to pay does not mean being stingy. Both sides have different expectations regarding the dates and exchange of money, which is why this conversation gave rise to controversy.
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She remembered that she once took her mother and her friends to eat at her favorite sushi restaurant, and half-jokingly asked her romantic partner if she wanted something, but the other party directly refused. In the end, he paid for the entire meal himself.
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She doesn’t want the man to pay for every date, but she believes that when her mother and friends are present, if the other party is willing to take the initiative to pay, it will better show his importance, sincerity and willingness to pay.
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Supporters believe that the man is pursuing Lisa, and taking the initiative to treat her may show his thoughtfulness; Opponents believe that the man has no obligation to pay for her and his relatives and friends. The conflict lies in the fact that both parties have different expectations regarding money on the date.
